However, I also feel that the pertinent thing to keep in mind here is that the symptoms you are having are not "normal" (without trying to make you feel "abnormal").According to Web MD.com: You may never notice symptoms from an HSV infection.How can I risk the health and wellbeing of someone that I love? I can only imagine the pain (both physical and emotional), the worry about your sex life being over, the anger (at him and at you) for allowing this to happen, and the stress of symptoms that just won't go away.
I wish it weren't true, but I have contracted the virus for genital herpes.
I have many reasons for engaging in this kind of relationship (a very long story) but believe me, it's not my long term choice.
I want an exclusive and totally loving relationship with a man who adores me and I him.
I would however like to bring your attention to a great page I've found called "Telling Someone" on
They give excellent advice on how to handle this super sensitive topic.